Hi, I'm Mel

35+, she/her, Chinese-Am, have been rping on and off for 20+years. I love character-driven rp and making a mess. Hit me up if you want knives and/or tenderness. Central/GMT -6.Currently only looking for 1x1s and not interested in joining games.

PREFERENCES

The nitty-gritty of roleplay. If something here is a dealbreaker, we might not vibe. Some things are more flexible than others.

general

  • Looking for long-term partners to build universes with

  • I only play OCs

  • I only write queer ships (MxM or FxF, trans and nb friendly)

  • I only play characters of color, including a lot of chinese people

  • I'm old, so I prefer my partners to be 25+

  • I love to worldbuild and populate those worlds

  • I love doubling and NPCs

  • Big fan of non-linear storytelling

  • I like to talk out plots and plan out scenes or beats we want to hit

  • I prefer to make paired characters with my partners, whether their relationship is platonic, romantic, familial, or something else

  • I generally make new characters for each specific ship or plot, but have some characters whose plots didn't get far available to peruse

  • I use live action play bys but don't mind if you use something else, as long as it's not AI

  • But if you do want a face, I like finding them and am good at it so feel free to ask

  • I like to talk and would ideally like to be friends OOC. If you would rather not, tell me and I'll stick to rp talk

  • I tend to get invested in characters easily and will absolutely make moodboards and sometimes playlists, if you like that sort of thing

  • I'm ok with nsfw if it happens but it is not going to be the focus of the rp

  • IRL comes first, but please give me a heads up if you're going to step away for a while and I will do the same

  • If you don't think we vibe or your interest fizzles, just let me know and we can part ways amicably


writing

  • Prose only, I don't like commentspam, chatplay, etc type formats

  • Third person, present tense. I can do past if you really prefer, though

  • I like to experiment with second person for vignettes and would be williing to do something where we trade those back and forth rather than a traditional log

  • No first person

  • My reply speed varies depending on irl/workload/etc, but at worst I can probably manage once a week. I do wfh so it's likely I can do daily or even multiple times per day if work is slow and we get cooking

  • Please don't pester me for replies, I will tell you if it will take me longer than a week to reply, and especially if the rp is not working for me

  • My posts generally average 1-3 paragraphs, but I can occasionally write longer depending on how much time/ground the tag needs to cover

  • For example, if our characters are mostly just talking back and forth my tags might be shorter, whereas in a scene where a lot is going on they will likely be longer

  • Quality over quantity; I don't care about wordcount or post length as long as it's decent writing and gives me something to work with

  • That said, I don't mind if you write longer tags as long you don't mind me not matching

  • I do not do the dialogue stacking thing where the characters are simultaneously having multiple conversations throughout the tags; please do not give me multiple dialogue cues in the same tag

  • In terms of mediums, I'm willing to write on a private 1x1 forum, a private discord server, or dreamwidth

genres & themes

The good stuff! A non-exhaustive list of things I do and don't like to write.

genres

  • wuxia/xianxia/modern jianghu

  • neo-noir cyberpunk bullshit

  • political/palace intrigue

  • fairytale adaptations/retellings

  • myths and folktales

  • most flavors of assassins and spies

  • post/apocalyptic science-magic

  • space opera/giant robots

  • modern supernatural/urban fantasy

  • magical realism

  • pitch me something, the worst I can do is say no


themes and tropes

  • angst with a happy ending

  • odd couple/opposites attract

  • you and me against the world

  • mutual pining

  • hard people who are only soft for each other

  • second chances/meeting then parting then meeting again

  • childhood friends

  • rivalry/forbidden love

  • enemies to lovers back to enemies (maybe while still lovers)

  • forced proximity

  • arranged marriage/help i've fallen in love with my wife

  • "i love you but you're doing wrong in a way i cannot condone" OR "i hate you but you're being wronged in a way i cannot stomach"

  • long-lost/estranged siblings

  • found family


specific plot ideas


don't love these but you can convince me

  • medieval/straight historical rp (unless it's chinese)

  • DnD/WoW type fantasy

  • really any sort of European/western based type of fantasy

  • large age gaps unless someone is immortal

  • vampires


absolutely not

  • racism/homophobia/transphobia/etc unless it's a plot point and serves a purpose; this includes fatshaming and body image stuff

  • incest

  • any type of adult/minor

  • teacher/student and any variations

  • extreme power imbalances

  • strong D/s themes

  • fixed sexual position dynamics

  • piv sex

  • noncon between our characters

  • gross/unsanitary kinks

  • cannibalism

  • any type of chaser/chasing/fetishization

  • anthro/furry beyond kemonomimi, sorry I'm a square

  • beastiality

  • harry potter

  • AI faceclaims or writing

examples & links

Writing samples and examples of the types of characters I make.

examples

Writing samples
What a typical tag from me might look like
Character wiki
Where I have attempted to archive every character I've ever made.
Inactive characters
Characters whose plots didn't go or that I would be willing to play again under the right circumstances
Ao3
If you would like to get a feel for how I write on my own


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